The capacity for myth seems innate in human
nature. If incidents of legend become an athlete's surest
passport to immortality, then it is no surprise
that those who write about Prince Naseem Hamed have
sensationalized his story to the point of historical revision.
But as the events of his life unfolded, incidents arose
that boxing fans, and the average human being, would do well not
to ignore.
Since his retirement, we've heard little of
Hamed. What we know is that much of his life has been strange
and terrible. There is something ugly about his character
something ugly.
In a recent interview, Hamed seemed avowed
to remove misconceptions for which he has earned notoriety, but
the facts speak differently. The realities include unchecked
narcissistic personality disorder, vehicular endangerment,
incarceration, and finally obesity.
But before we address those
things, let's first examine the definition of narcissism, his
rise and fall, and the always-present rumors of a comeback.
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manuel of
Mental Disorders defines Narcissistic Personality Disorder as
a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration and
a total lack of empathy. The narcissist carries with
him or her a grandiose sense of self-importance, need for
admiration, and, beginning by young adulthood, certain qualities
as indicated by five or more of the following:
1) Has a grandiose sense of self
importance.
2) Is preoccupied with fantasies of
unlimited success, power, brilliance , beauty or ideal love.
3) Believes he or she is "special" and
unique and can only be understood by other special or high
status people, or institutions.
4) Requires excessive admiration.
5) Has an unjustified sense of
entitlement, unreasonable expectations of especially favorable
treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations.
6) Is interpersonally exploitative,
taking advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends.
7) Lacks empathy, is unwilling to
recognize or indentify with the feelings of others.
8) Is envious of others or believes
others are envious of him or her.
9) Shows arrogant or haughty behavior.
Hamed started his career as a bantamweight
and quickly moved up to the featherweight division, where he
stood out and was considered outstanding and unique. Many
considered his natural qualities of speed, lethal precision,
unorthodox style and wonderful reflexes amazing to watch.
What was not clear was whether he would
ascend the summit of the sport. What was evident, though, was
that his arrogant personality was starting to take shape. At 12
he already had lectured Harry Mulan, the former editor of boxing
news, by declaring, "You ought to write a story about me. I'm
going to be world champion someday." Little did Mulan realize
how prophetic those words would prove.
Hamed's ascent was astounding. At 21, he
gave a humiliating boxing lesson to WBO featherweight champ
Steve Robinsonk knocking him out in eight rounds. From a
fundamental perspective, Hamed did everything wrong. From the
unorthodox style he came to exemplify, he did everything right.
Hands held by his waist and punching with
lethal precision from crazy angles, he picked
Robinson apart, leaning back to avoid any attack while
effortlessly launching his own.
Hamed's abilities may have seemed a thing
of athletic beauty, but there was something ugly and disturbing
about his showboating -- and, even moreso -- about the enjoyment
he gleaned from ripping Robinson apart.
His narcissistic demons suddenly took
possession and rendered him powerless in the grip of a disorder
that had all the strength of the primitive forces of nature.
It was a sickness so complete it left no room in his soul
for mercy. As if inhabiting a role of a
sadistic dominator, it seemed almost a natural extension of his
personality.
Hamed became a promoter's dream. But his
ever-growing ego and self-destructive arrogance transormed him
into a nightmare -- not only to himself, but to those around
him. His egomaniacal ring entrances included fire, smoke, a
flying carpet, and a throne, artificially inflating his ego even
more.
But The Prince was beginning a steady
decline. The skills that had carried him to almost effortless
victories over Kevin Kelley, Daniel Alicea and Paul Ingle were
slipping. He was becoming easier to hit -- due in part to
an increasingly lackadaisical attitude toward each opponent. As
his knockouts mounted, Hamed approached each fight as if a
stoppage were was inevitable.
Ultimately, his subtle decline was exposed
by one Marco Antonio Barrera.
The sport is merciless, especially at
its summit, in exposing a fighter's shortcomings.
Hamed paid the price for his own hype. Tolerating others
only to the extent to which he considered them useful, he split
with promoter Frank Warren and trainer Brendan Ingle -- further
evidence that he was losing touch with reality. Hamed was
clearly outclassed by the more-experienced Barrera and lost by a
lopsided decision. Then, in a comeback fight against an ordinary
fighter named Manuel Calvo, he shadow of his former self.
What must be examed is Hamed's dwindling
appetite for the ring and the noticeable decline in his skills.
By the time he fought Barrera, he was no longer in love
with the sport. His dwindling motivation was made worse by a
desultory training camp. By foregoing a Barrera rematch at the
age of 28, he joined the ranks many fighters who, as one writer
put it, "fought on too long after the fistic wellspring of their
abilities had run dry."
So why did Hamed leave the sport at a time
when his physical abilities should have been at their peak? Did
he look down upon all the featheweights he'd already beaten and
decide there was nothing left but to beat them again?
Or was his career was cut
short by his inability to accept a reality that Barrera had
pounded into him -- that he was, in fact, beatable?

The Prince pulled a virtual vanishing act
until May 2, 2005, the day he involved in a 90-mph, three-car
collision on Ringlow Road in Sheffield, England. Seven months
later, a man in the car Hamed hit was unable to come to court
because he was still hospitalized. The man's wife also had been
injured.
According to testimony, Hamed had been
anxious to impress a businessman, Asif Goro, a passenger in his
$320,000 McLaren Mercedes at the time of the crash. He crossed a
solid white line at at least 90 and crashed head-on into a
Volkswagen Golf. Hamed's vehicle then hit a second vehicle he'd
been trying to overtake. The driver of the Volkswagen broke
every major bone in his body suffered bruising to his brain.
Hamed, who was unhurt, fed the scene
and walked the half-mile to one of his houses, claiming later
that he didn't want to cause a scene with angry onlookers. When
the police arrivd at his home, Hamed was climbing into another
car. He told them he was on his way to buy butterfly bandages
for his friend's superficial wounds.
Hamed plead guilty, was jailed 15 months,
and was given a four-year driving ban. He was granted an early
release on Sept 4, 2006, after serving 16 weeks, and the
remainder of his sentence under house arrest, monitored by an
electronic tag.
A civil judgment cost
him a rumored 1 million pounds.
And
his appointment as a ''Member of the Civil Division of the Most
Excellent Order of the British Empire'' (otherwise known as an
MBE) was annulled. "It will be a big
blow for him to lose this honor. This will really upset him,"
Brendan Ingle told the London Daily Mirror. "He was really
delighted at receiving the award from the Queen. Afterwards he
was so proud he used to show it to everyone."
Sometimes it's not what a man has, but what
is denied him, that excites the harshest hysteria of his
narcissistic soul. "I love the sport of boxing it will always be
in my heart," Hamed said in a recent interview. "Because of
that, I'll never tell you I'm retired!"
Is there reason to assume that Hamed has
rekindled his desire to get back into the ring after a long
exile? If so, he his deluded. Time isn't kind to a fighter's
reflexes. His punching power will remain, but his timing and
coordination will never be what it once was.
Hamed's greatest chance of regaining any of
the glory of his past is a reunion with Ingle; and that's not
going to happen. Ingle is the man who principally made the best
use of his distinct physical attributes and natural skills.
Rumors of his impending return will no doubt arise over the next
few years, but the Prince will never again reign as a
126-pound champion.
Psychologists say narcissists cannot
tolerate getting older. They come to realize that the dream
world they envisioned did not materialize and subsequently they
implode psychologically.
The unstudied might excuse him as a young
man who fell victim to glamour and excess he wasn't prepared to
handle, but Hamed's seems to be an account of bad things that
happened to others who were in his path. A
better ending might have found him transformed by the tragedy he
inflicted on others.
To this day, though, he has shown no signs
of implosion, nor any kind of remorse. As a human being, Hamed
remains the proverbial piece of shit.
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